Anal Intercourse – How to Have Anal Sex

Anal intercourse is widely practice by many heterosexual couples to enhance pleasure and orgasm and it is not considered homosexual act. Some men enjoyed the experience as much as women and for some couples anal sex is part of their normal sexual activity and they enjoyed it as much as oral stimulation or sexual intercourse.

Many people considered anus to be a very important erogenous zone because the anus consists of numerous nerve ending and when stimulated properly can be very erotic and pleasurable that can also lead to intense orgasm. Anal tissue is very delicate because of high number of nerve ending and proper technique should be follow to reduce pain and increase pleasure. When anal stimulation is done correctly it can be very pleasurable or it can be very painful when done incorrectly.

Most of the time people who complained they had bad experienced with anal intercourse are not doing it properly. In order to enjoy this experience both partners should be genuinely willing and want to participate with each other to explore and experiment this type of sexual activity together to enhance each other sexual experience.

When mutual consent has been established between you and your partner, it is always a good idea to begin with soft anal stimulation before you begin with any types of anal penetration. This technique applied to both men and women. You want to build up the pleasure first and you can do this by massaging your partner’s anus with your thoroughly cleansed fingers. The idea is to make sure your partner relaxed enough to allow for easier anal penetration and by relaxing it also allow your partner to experience more pleasure rather than pain caused by tightening of the sphincter muscles.

When you have massaged your partner enough to cause him/her to relax you can insert well lubricated finger slowly by sliding it in. You can begin by sliding one finger inside and if your partner is comfortable with one finger slowly slide two fingers inside. If your partner is comfortable with two fingers inside, you can slide your well lubricated penis inside slowly beginning with the tip of your penis.

Once the head of your penis is inside and your partner is comfortable, you can slowly slide in your entire penis shaft. Keep in mind when sliding in your penis, this process should never be force as it can be very painful for the recipient. Your thrusting motion depends on the comfort level of your partner as some enjoy slow thrusting motion and others prefer fast thrusting motion during anal intercourse.

This process should be stop at anytime if your partner is uncomfortable because any force penetration can cause more damage than pleasure. Some people may not enjoy any type of anal penetration in the beginning and this is normal as they are not used to this type of feelings, but with more practice they will soon get used to the feelings and learned to enjoy the erotic sensation and pleasure from anal penetration.

Anal penetration should not be limited only with the use of fingers or genitals as you can also use sex toys and vibrators made for anal use only. Make sure to use enough lubricants to reduce pain and to avoid causing nerve damage on the anus. You can apply lubricants on the penis, the anus, or the objects used for anal penetration.

It is not a good idea to insert any objects that is not made for anal use as it is unsafe and it may cause infections. It is always a safe practice to begin with slow and gentle penetration and increases the pace that is comfortable with the recipient.

Some may only prefer anal stimulation on the outside of anal opening during sexual intercourse and some may prefer anal penetration with one or two fingers and may dislike penetration with the use of penis or sex toys. Some people with high sex drive are able to achieve orgasm directly from anal penetration alone.

Some people also enjoy anilingus or rimming which is also known as oral stimulation of the anus. This type of stimulation can be very pleasurable for the recipient and it is also very risky as it can increase the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and other infections that can be transmitted from oral to anal contact with infected individual.

It is always a safe practice to wear condom during anal sex even though both partners are disease free. If both partners are disease free there are no risk of infections from sexually transmitted diseases, however the anus consists of bacteria that are produce naturally within the body and if the bacteria is introduce into the vagina it can cause vaginal infections and for this reason vaginal intercourse should be avoided right after anal intercourse.

Another safe practice is to have vaginal intercourse prior to anal intercourse or by using condom during anal intercourse and washing the genital area thoroughly with soap and water before switching to vaginal intercourse.

Anal sex is not a dirty sexual activity but we all think it is because of the way we were brought up to think that anus is dirty. Proper hygiene can easily be maintained by washing the area with soap and water on daily basis.

Anal sex have high risk of transmitting the HIV virus to the recipient because anal tissues are delicate and can be broken easily during thrusting motion and therefore increasing the risk of transmitting HIV virus and other various infections. The risk can be reduced by using a condom or by not having anal sex with multiple sexual partners.

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