Sexual Intimacy – Soulmate By Natasha Bedingfield (Intimate Love Song)

Sexual intimacy is important in sexual relationships because it allow us to express our feelings and emotions, and connect with each other at a deeper level.  Developing intimacy begins with self love and becoming confident with your sexuality so you can develop and share intimacy with others.

According to Maltz Hierarchy of positive sexual interaction, deep emotional connection involved in sexual intimacy is more important than physical sex act and orgasm.  According to Wygant method of dating sexual intimacy is based on knowing what you want in sexual relationships and knowing how to communicate effectively with your partner so you can enjoy the amazing lovemaking you desire.

Men and women are not alike when it comes to getting sexually turn on.  Most men can get turn on very quickly visually and most men can get involve sexually without love.  Women require more time and are turn on by emotions and romance, and most women cannot get involve sexually without first developing emotional connection.

According to Wygant if you are able to connect with woman deeply right away and if you are able to understand woman at a deeper level, you are more likely to develop amazing intimacy with her.  You also need to know what you desire from lovemaking and if you are inexperience you need to become proactive in meeting and connecting with different women.

Women get sexually aroused very slowly and need more time before she can develop intimacy with you.  You need to go very slow and be very patient to turn women on.  Women needs lots of foreplay to get sexually aroused and it’s all about building sexual tension by creating anticipation to turn women on.

When you go slowly with building sexual tension and anticipation you make women feels very safe and comfortable around you.  Women are more likely to open up to you sexually when they feel safe and secure in a relationship.    

Developing intimacy is about showing real emotion and connecting with women and there is just no substitute for doing this.  When you read about pickup routine or other manipulative ways of getting women into bed you are not being real and you don’t connect with women.  When you use pickup routine you are not present in the moment and you become someone you are not.

You need to become the best person you can be that is fun, exciting, and confident.  When you are confident you don’t need approval or validation from women whether or not she is interested in you.  Confident men connect with women right away and don’t care about the outcome.  Confident men don’t care about instant sexual gratification but instead he creates magical moment for her to see what she is like and whether or not she deserves him.

Sexual intimacy is about building momentum which requires lots of patience.  You too can learn how to develop the intimacy and relationships you desire by reading more on dating coach and relationship coach.

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